A friend of mine on facebook posted a status talking about how so many people cheat and claiming that its okay because humans are not supposed to be monogamous anyway... Shit like this pisses me off...
Do you know why people cheat? A majority of people cheat because they are lazy. Relationships take a lot of work, HARD WORK. They arnt all rainbows kisses and smiles everyday for the rest of your life. They SHOULD be mostly good times, you SHOULD be happy in your relationship and enjoy the life you are creating with your significant other BUT shit happens. Life throws crap at people on a daily basis, you go through hard times, whatever it may be SOMETHING is going to happen at some point in your relationship. Too many people see that as an excuse to 'turn to someone else'... F THAT. NO, THATS NOT OKAY. If you really love someone you fight to be with them. You work through all that hard shit no matter what it is. So you might hate each other a few days, maybe you're not happy with each other for a few months or maybe things are just stressful and even though they have nothing to do with the two of you its effecting your relationship. Okay. Get through that. Get to the other side... It's supposed to make you stronger.
I am by NO means saying that you should stay in a shitty relationship, if things arnt working out end it. Don't cheat, fucking leave. It's simple respect for another human being, one you at one point had to have had SOME sort of feelings for. Most people don't marry their first girlfriend/boyfriend and thats okay, each relationship is supposed to be a lesson. Learn from it. I'm just saying, if it isnt working, LEAVE. If you're that unhappy, if you don't want to work at it FOREVER, Then you have no business being in that relationship in the first place. I hate the sob stories, the excuses... "oh I can't leave because of this or that or whatever" NO. If you can't leave at that moment in time, and its that bad then you shouldn't even be worried about who you're going to fuck next. You should be worried about getting your shit together, fixing your life and getting out of the mess you made... THEN worry about relationships. Hopping from one to another isnt going to solve the obvious problem you already have.
I'm kind of venting... I'm kind of going off on tangents but this shit just makes me so mad. All I've ever wanted was to find the ONE person I could spend the rest of my life with. I was never that naive that I thought it would be easy. I know it's going to take work but it's worth it. I want to grow old with someone I love, who loves me in return... I want to be THAT important to someone that they will fight to be with me. It's not a game and too many people have played me like it was.... Not that it matters anymore because I AM happy, i HAVE found my 'other half' and I believe her when she tells me she feels the same way I do and I am more in love than I have ever been... I'm going to spend the REST of my life with this girl and I will never need anyone else.. I just get mad at how easy it seems to be for people to play games and then to make shitty excuses for why its okay.... I guess I'm kind of being relationship defensive... I'm pms-ing, ignore me.
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